How To Be Content

I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation…

In life we aren’t always eating gourmet food nor are we constantly in a bubble of excitement. Life can be very raw sometimes. But even in that we were called to be content in every and any situation.

That can be difficult considering we live in a materialistic driven society which often creates an environment for discontentment, envy and ungratefulness.

Philippians 4:12: “I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.”

I love the testimony of Paul in the word and how God taught and cultivated a life of contentment in him through his experiences.

How many of you have been through some stuff? Like you’ve really gone through the forrest that is sometimes life. And can say in everything you’re able to find that joy and that peace in what you have, who you’re with and where you are at in life in that moment.

Whether you have or you are in want being able to be content and faithful in the great or small that you have is a blessing.

The beauty is once you are able to do that it becomes much easier to celebrate others. I’m talking genuine happiness for someone else’s achievement or success. Not the bitter smiles through gritted teeth we have all at some point been faced with.

If you haven’t reached that point yet, don’t be disheartened. Instead let that be your aim this February. The goals didn’t end in January – it’s a decision to actively think a certain way the whole year.

It’s all about perspective.

Ladies Let’s Get Information

No you did not misread the title, if you caught on to the song reference above. Let’s get information.

There is no point forming around that which you do not know or understand. This is applicable to the gents too if not more so.

There has been a lot of estrogen flying around lately and I thought to add two cents of my own.

Women I need you to know – you are enough. You were not made to be a man so stop striving to be like them but focus on what you were made to do.

We harness so much strength as women and when we embrace it we are unstoppable. Our differences don’t make us weaker they make us unique.

Strive to be intelligent, continue to develop your strengths and build up your weaknesses. Hone your craft and refuse to be ignorant. Celebrate your female form, you were made by God – God makes good things so girl – know that you’re good!

Support your fellow queens and fix each other’s crowns.

Men I need you to know (coming from a biblical point of view here) women may have been made second – but we should never be treated as second choice. God did not create us as an afterthought.

We were a solution to a problem you didn’t even know you had. Isn’t God amazing?

We were not created from dust or the ground. We were made from a rib. Fashioned out of something that serves the purpose of protection, support…

What I’m really trying to say is – if you want to breathe don’t suffocate a woman.

Side note: You would not be able to do a lot of basic movements with your body without the rib cage. Don’t take my word for it – ask your doctor, you can thank me later.

And to the brothers who were not offended by the above statements, please know this. There is nothing more attractive than a man who is secure within himself. Who is not intimidated by feminine competition – who is able to celebrate, support and lift up the ladies dear to him. Part of what shows you are a man is how you respond to women and their differences to you.

Men were created to be the head but we women operate as the neck. Women a neck supports, influences and with the right attitude moves the head.

Remember united we stand, divided we fall.

Now ladies, let’s get in formation 😉